Because I watch the Time?

That's the question that most hear when I'm struggling with the / the Mary and John go with the others.
I always ask:
Can you play chess?
Ninety percent of the answers are ... No!
I ask:
Can you play lady?
Ninety percent of the answers are ... Yes!
Then they come (90%) against with a lot of swearing wondering why I asked it. It's always like that.
Answer: 
Lady is premature ejaculation. 
Chess is "envernização"
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